Do you know how to have spectacular prolonged orgasms every time you have sex? After you read this article, you will!
1. Bounteous Breath
Breath is basic. You don’t have to remember any complicated esoteric formulas or worry if you’re doing it wrong. You certainly won’t forget to do it at all. Breath happens. And, if you want your orgasms to expand, all you need to do is enhance whatever your breath is already doing. Just do a little more. Breathe a little faster, draw it in a little deeper, let it out a bit longer, or open your chest and belly more. Enhance your breathing and you’ll augment your arousal and your climax will be bigger and better.
2. Celebration of Sounds
Sound inhibition is the enemy of freeing your orgasm, so to escalate your experience, open your mouth and let the sounds out. You don’t have to raise the roof or frighten the horses, just don’t be silent. Freeing your sound is an important key to experiencing expanded sexuality.
Start small by making your breath audible. Play with making soft, sexy sounds as you proceed through your arousal journey. Expand your sound repertoire as you become more comfortable with your sound ability. Moan, coo, sigh and whimper and you’ll enhance your experience (and your partners’, too!) Allow yourself to have fun releasing your soundtrack of pleasure.
Use sound (and breath, of course) when you start coming and just don’t stop. Let sound roll out of your open mouth as the orgasmic wave moves through you. When you’re climaxing, keep your sounds going and your orgasm will keep on going, too!
3. Shake Your Booty
Rocking your hips is the basic mammal mating motion. Utilize that ancient pathway and pump your pelvis! Imagine your spine is a snake and undulate away. Even a small pelvic tilting motion will activate a basic sex reflex, so rock and roll your booty to enhance your turn-on and increase your climax. Don’t just lie there, vibrate, shimmy, quiver and quake. Rock it and roll it and shake it all around. Let your thrusting animal out and you’ll propel your orgasm sky-high. Pump it up, baby!
4. Flex Your Floor
Inside the bottom of your body lies a hammock of muscles that surround your genitalia and associated organs. Every time you grasp and release these muscles, you’re squeezing, rubbing and fondling your sexy bits. Essentially, you’re playing with yourself without using your hands, which is convenient because during sex your hands are often busy elsewhere.
The pelvic floor muscles also act as a trampoline for sexual energy that ricochets it all around your body, spreading your arousal and magnifying its intensity.
There is no one right way to play with your pelvic floor muscles, so experiment with lots of different actions. Squeeze, pull up, cinch together, flutter, vibrate, push, hold and release them as you see fit. Just get them involved and you’ll heighten your excitement, experience easier arousal, and extend your orgasm.
5. Say Yes!
These first four tips develop skills that primarily utilize the toolkit of your body to enhance your sexuality. This tip uses your mind skills, since that really is your primary sexual organ. Give yourself permission to feel more, do more, explore and go further, deeper and wilder then you ever have. Free your mind and the rest will cum along.
When playing with your new skills, resistance, fear, anxiety along with concerns about impropriety will likely arise. Fend them off by repeatedly giving yourself permission to feel all the pleasure you’re capable of, and to be a wildly free sexual being.
Give yourself permission, over and over, to release, to let go of inhibitions, to push yourself into new territory. Say “Yes” to pleasure, “Yes” to getting wilder, “YES” to going further then you thought you could. When you start to come, don’t let limiting beliefs stop you. Say “Yes” to allowing yourself to keep going — and you will.
6. Solo Personal Practice
You learn through repetition. Like driving a car or playing a musical instrument, you need to practice to get good at any learned skills, including (and perhaps especially) at sex. To experience super sexuality you need to practice until the learning becomes embedded in your body-mind and your responses become automatic. Practice makes access as you lay down a neural groove, a pattern that forms an embodied trail. The more you traverse that path, the easier it gets. And, when you use your breath, sound and movement skills repeatedly, they become natural and effortless. As your abilities become habitual, you become increasingly orgasmically proficient.
As with music making, you need to be proficient with your own equipment before you can play beautiful duets. Solo practice will give you the foundational skills you need to make sex with a partner a gloriously hot collaboration. I encourage you to play your own instrument and become fluent in the language of your sexual self. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t also play and practice with partners, just that you must also cultivate your own abilities, alone, with yourself. So practice, lots and lots! It may not get you to Carnegie Hall, but it will get you where you want to go.
7. Play & Experiment
These tips are based on things that work well for most people, most of the time. And, you are utterly unique. Remember — there is no one right way to have fabulous sex or become mega-orgasmic. There are many paths to expanded sexuality. Don’t get stuck thinking about whether you’re doing it right or wrong. Instead, notice what works and what doesn’t.
Take these ideas into the laboratory of your life and play with them. Do your own experiments and pay attention to what transpires. Try variations on each theme and notice where they take you. Explore and see what arises (or doesn’t). Be your own scientist and observe what happens when you do it one way or another. Discover what works for you and then see if you can expand upon that. Try everything once or better yet, several times and attend to the results. Combine skills and notice if they enhance each other. Be creative and remember to play!
Since sex is something that’s both inherent and learned, you may as well grab hold of yourself and grab this opportunity to develop old skills and learn new ones. Use these tips to explore the hardware of your biological template and learn how to fully use your awesome capacity to re-program the sexy software of your self.
The immediate reward will be evident in your increased pleasure ability. But bigger, better orgasms aren’t the only benefit of becoming a virtuoso of your own sexuality. Orgasmic tsunamis will put a satisfied spring in your step and a radiant smile on your face. When you can easily get aroused by a wide variety of yummy stimuli and have orgasms that last for many minutes at a time, it’s hard to be bummed out. The world really does look better when you’re looking through orgasm-colored glasses. Go ahead, start now. Take matters into your very own hot little hands and remember — practice, practice, practice!
Andre
I want to buy a hammock to hang in our garden between two trees which are 10 feet apart. I don’t want to bring it in every time we have bad weather. I want to use it for reading and sleeping, and for my two young kids to enjoy swinging and playing in it. Any advice from personal experience? Thanks in advance.
Glenda
If you are fortunate enough to live in a location in North America which receives a lot of sun year round, no doubt you have turned patio living into a lifestyle. Arizona, Nevada, and even some areas of Canada enjoy so many rain free days each year that citizens literally live their lives in the outdoors, and it looks as though they were spending some time in the living room.
Now you may not be fortunate enough to live in a location where little rainfall is a guarantee, but that doesn’t mean you can’t create your own living room right outside and enjoy it all summer long. Here are a few ideas for furnishing your patio and making it into the perfect recreation area.
A covered deck or patio is perfect
Even if you do live in an area where you expect a moderate or even high amount of rain in the summer time, you can live outdoors as long as you have a nice cover over your outdoor living space. Many houses have roofs which extend over porches and patios, so you don’t have to worry about the furniture getting wet.
Wicker and rattan are always in style
One of the great things about patio living is that the décor just doesn’t seem to get old. The smell, look, and feel of wicker furniture for the patio is just as appealing today as it was 30 years ago. What’s better is that there are even more options than there used to be; chair and table sets with cushions and pillows are fairly inexpensive and can be found almost everywhere.
If you do want to modernize the look of your deck or patio, you also have plenty of options. Try looking at tables with metal frames, around a glass base. Chairs and other furniture can be metal or plastic as well, although you need to be sure to dry off metal furniture that gets wet as it may cause rust to build up on the surface of your deck.
Add some unique pieces of furniture
You can really make your guests do a double take, and maybe even get in a minor skirmish, if you include some original pieces of furniture. One of my personal favorites are hanging basket chairs, suspended from the ceiling. These are ultra comfortable as they allow a person to sink right in and read a favorite book or take a quick cat nap.
Other great furniture additions to patio and decks include porch swings. Again, these can either be suspended from the roof or they can be supported by a frame. You might even want to try a hammock slung between the railings.
Don’t forget the appliances and electronics!
Of course if you really want to live in style outside, you want to have easy access to food and entertainment. There are several barbecue models sold today that include ice chests, perfect for keeping snacks and drinks; no one is stopping you from putting a mini fridge out there either.
And of course for the finishing touch, why not bring out a television set or even a full entertainment center? There’s nothing quite so romantic as taking in a movie in the warm summer heat while the night falls around you, and even on your own I guarantee it will be more fun than watching inside!
Zachary
Looking for a beach front hotel in Belize on a beautiful Caye, then look no further than Mata Chica on Ambergris Caye.
Mata Chica has been described with good reason as the Caribbean’s last and best secret.
This is an escape from all that is ordinary, to one of the very best hotels in Belize, sitting alongsider a long stretch of shimmering white sand, arguable the best beach in Belize, and beautiful tropical lush green rainforest and multicoloured flowers and bushes on the other.
Matachica is literally a stones throw off one of the most abundant coral reefs in the world, some five miles north of the town of San Pedro.
When you arrive at this hotel whether or not you have selected Matachica for your romantic honeymoon package in Belize, or you were here because you were told it was the best and most romantic beach front hotel on Ambergris Caye, you will be very impressed by the resort’s majestic lobby. It has been elegantly designed and created under a thatched roof, and is the centre of Mata Chica.
Here you can relax in a comfortable sofa, and either read a book from the resort’s library or just socialize.
On arrival, after a cold drink, and the normal formalities, you will be shown to your spectacular and elegant accommodation. There are twelve casitas and two luxury villas which are two bedroomed and two bathroomed.
The casitas are beachfront and the villas are located at the highest point of the resort with spectacular views of the Caribbean. The villas not only have a huge sun deck a reading room and a kitchenette but also a personal maid if you so choose. The bathrooms and the furnishings in all the accommodations are first class, and you will especially enjoy the quality of the bed linen
Food is important on any holiday, it is vitally important on a honeymoon and the Mambo Restaurant at Mata Chica will not disappoint even the most sophisticated of palates. The chef is Italian but the dishes are international, although the home made breads and pastas are out of this world. The gardens of the Mata Chica supplies the herbs spices and vegetables. Many guests who plan to eat around change their minds after sampling the food, which just about says it all.
Just for a moment use your imagination, and think of yourself lying in your hammock outside your suite high on the hill at Mata Chica. You are totally relaxed in the middle of your Belize Vacation package. There is a warm breeze gently tugging your hair as your hammock gently rocks to and from as you reach out for another mouthful of cold beer. The beautiful white sand beach of this beach front hotel can be seen and the tropical reef beyond.
What are you to do with the rest of your day on Ambergris Caye. The couple you met who are on a romantic honeymoon package have suggested you take a sea kayak out to the reef and go snorkeling. They were so excited to have been swimming alongside the teeming multicolored tropical fish, and they saw a manta ray and several turtles.
There is the evening ahead with cocktails in the beachfront lounge, then dinner and you have been recommended to the chocolate soufflé. The wine list has also impressed you, and you know there is a great classic film on this evening at the Cinema-Martini Lounge on the huge plasma television.
There is just time for a swim in the turquoise Caribbean because you had forgotten your booking in the Jade Spa for a relaxing yet invigorating massage.
At Mata Chica you have learnt to accept and to expect the Exceptional. A perfect spot for a Caribbean Honeymoon, a Romantic Escape or a top class beach front Belize Vacation Package.
Grace
Does anyone know how to make a rope hammock. Not the hammock with fabric. Are there any websites with detailed info of how to do it from start to finish?
Kim
Hammocks are an absolute bliss, whether they are in your garden, lawn, on the beach, on your porch or on a camping trip. Hammocks are usually made out of different types of material in order to provide maximum comfort, such as cotton, nylon, silk thread and/or combination of all. If you are one of the many who has found the ultimate comfort in your hammock, and you have it set outdoors, you should consider getting a hammock shelter for its protection and safety.
Different Types Of Hammocks
Hammocks are made out of a variety of materials in order to match your needs, but also the weather of the place you live or the purpose for which you are going to use it; for example, if you want to use your hammock by the beach, then cotton would be the first choice in order to absorb humidity and maintain a cool environment. However, if you were to get a hammock for your porch, which would be used for all types of weather, then you should get one made out of a nylon and cotton combination, for it is flexible and retains heat when needed.
Due to the fact that hammocks are usually made out of fabric, they can be damaged with ease when left outdoors year-round in the wind, rain and the ultraviolet sunrays; therefore, you should consider investing in a hammock shelter. Hammock shelters mainly provide direct protection to your hammock from the weather, bird droppings and it also protects the person using it, especially if you have it tied to the trees in the garden or on the beach.
Types Of Hammock Shelters
There are many types of hammock shelters to choose from; however, the most popular are the types that are water resistant, but see-through so you can still see the sky if you choose. Hammock shelters are great if you use your hammock on a camping trip to keep away the mosquitoes, flies and other small insects that are known to bite humans.
A hammock shelter will work great to keep your hammock safe from the weather but will also keep you safe from any insects and bugs that are mostly out in the summer, which is usually the best time to use your hammock in the open air. So, stop the insects from restricting your use of your hammock with a hammock shelter that you can use day or night.
Roland
I bought a Seacliff 3 person hammock swing at Walmart and the top awning has ripped. Any ideas where to get a replacement. Walmart does not sell replacements and searching yielded no results. Any hints as to where I can go.
Thanks.
Dora
In order to get the most out of your hammock, I am sure you remembered to take it down and store it properly for the winter months. Now that spring has arrived it is time to finally take that hammock out of hibernation and let it sway in the wind again.
To wash your hammock and get all those dusty cobwebs off of it, simply lay the hammock out on the ground flat. This can be on your patio, driveway, or deck. Essentially any hard surface that you have swept clean of debris and that can get wet.
You will want to have a bucket of water, mild detergent, and soft bristle brush. Scrub clean the hammock bed on one side, then flip it over and repeat. If you notice any areas of mold or mildew, scrub extra hard and remove as much as possible. While you are scrubbing, inspect the ropes for any fraying or damage that could have been caused during the off season.
Once you have fully cleaned off all the debris and stains, rinse with regular water. You can use your hose if available, or wipe it down with a regular cloth.
Now that your hammock is clean, you will want to hang it out to dry as soon as possible. If your hammock has spreader bars, you can hang it just like you would for normal use as long as it is in direct sunlight to dry.
If your hammock is Brazilian or camping style, without spreader bars, hang it over a chair or banister in the sun and allow it to dry that way.
Most hammocks will dry fully within 1 to 2 days. A dry hammock will last longer, so be certain that you get it in the sunlight as soon as possible.
By taking good care of your hammock and other outdoor furnishings you will ensure many years of happy use for you, your friends, and your family.
Ruben
There are many reasons why you might want to have a hammock - but sometimes you just can’t find a place to put one. Have you ever thought of having a hammock in your garden, only to realize that you don’t have any trees you could use to hold the hammock? Or, perhaps you love the idea of a hammock but you don’t have a yard, only a balcony or a deck that you can use.
Solution
All of these problems can be solved by using a hammock chair frame. These handy devices take up about the same amount of room as a lawn chair, but have the same initial idea as a hammock, which makes them very relaxing, and also very space saving.
What Is It?
A hammock chair frame is basically a way of suspending a chair made out of the same material as a hammock. The frame will rest on the ground, and then go up over the head of the person. Suspended in this frame would be the hammock material. In this way, the hammock chair frame allows you to sit in something that is suspended like a hammock, and that feels like a hammock. However, instead of lying flat, you can sit up.
This is good for many reasons. First of all, you can use your hammock chair frame as a basic lawn chair and sit in it to have your morning coffee or to enjoy what’s going on around you. You don’t have to be lying down to explore the benefits of the hammock chair frame, in fact, sitting up might be the better way to do it.
Also, the hammock chair frame takes up much less space than the traditional hammock. You can use it on a patio or deck, and you can even use it indoors if you’d like. No matter where you use it, it is going to provide the same amount of relaxation as a hammock, with a fraction of the space.
Being able to relax in something like the hammock chair frame is a most important thing to have in your life. If you don’t have a way of relaxing, you will find that you are much more stressed and unable to enjoy the good things in your life. Getting something like a hammock chair frame is a great way to relieve stress and be able to enjoy your life again.
Katherine
Ambergis Caye in Belize is where you will find The Azul Hotel and Beach Resort, the most exclusive lodging on Ambergris Caye.
The Azul Beach Resort was specifically created to bring together the top end of the market with the very exclusive private villa and the very best amenities of a world class resort, and that has been incredibly successful. This can now claim to be the very best Belize resort and the ideal destination for an unforgettable honeymoon in Belize.
This may not be part of your everyday Belize vacation Package, but this is definitely beach front Belize at its very best, and is priced accordingly, but for your money comes sheer quality and exclusivity
Without visiting Ambergris Caye it is very difficult to visualize Azul Resort, but this article will attempt the near impossible in words and pictures.
Imagine a cluster of buildings with two dazzlingly white villas on either side of a round infinity pool, situated on 400 feet of private beach which is lapped by an azure-turquoise sea.
There are only the two villas and possibly the best restaurant in Belize called The Rojo Lounge, which is what makes the Azul Resort possibly the most exclusive if not the best Belize Luxury Resort. The food in the restaurant is innovative and quite superb, with good size portions
The villas are really like a very high class home from home covering of 3000 square feet. They are designed very much on open plan lines and marble tiled, with high ceilings allowing for a second bedroom and bathroom in a gallery style. The villa design has used local hardwoods that are unique to Belize and the design effect is one of total simplicity.
Perhaps the most outstanding feature of the villas is the use of the rooftop as part of the living space of the villa. This includes a built in day bed, a dining area and a Jacuzzi tub with a unique lighting system so it can be used day and night.
Alternatively you can dine out under the stars on the roof after watching the sun set over the mangroves and lagoon drinking a frozen Mojitos.
It is quite difficult to look at the fixtures and fittings without pinching yourself. There is a custom built state of the art Viking kitchen, but with the world class restaurant a few yards away it seems unlikely to say the least that you would ever want to cook. When you add to this Apple computers, 50 inch plasma flat screen TV, and Bose theatre system, then you might understand the sheer quality of your surroundings. In fact the even better news is the restaurant also supplies a private chef service to your villa for that meal on the roof.
Much of this may be reminiscent of other exclusive villas, until you add the hotel touches, such as maid service, room service, tour planning, in fact almost anything and everything you should expect and get from the very best, because that is what the Azul Resort and Villas are.
There is a wonderful combination here of the best of good taste and yet a uniquely casual elegance. Wherever you look there is somewhere comfortable to sit on or lie on to relax. Whether it be a hammock, a sun lounger at the beach, or at the table on the roof, the settee in front of the TV, you will find total relaxation everywhere.
The Azul Villas are a magical combination of tasteful and casual. Wherever you choose to come to rest, there is a welcoming spot which has been designed with comfort and beauty in mind: Under the palapas in a hammock, on a lounge chair at the beach, at a table on the rooftop, sitting at the kitchen table or sprawling on the couch.
One final comment is that the staff of the Azul Resort are both friendly and unobtrusively attentive. They have the great skill of only being there when you want them. They will do everything from great drinks, fantastic room service at the Villa, and fetch and carry you to and from the airport. Their performance is faultless.
The Azul Villas on Ambergris Caye in Belize could be just the ultimate best luxury hotel in Belize, and without a shadow of a doubt the only place to go for your honeymoon in Belize.
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Sam
